IS YOUR FAMILY IN DENIAL ABOUT SENIORS NEEDING HELP?
Are frustrated by relatives in denial about seniors’ declining health and increasing care needs?
Whether it’s Alzheimer’s, dementia, fall risk or any other condition, their denial can make you feel frustrated and worrying about the senior that needs special care.
In order to help you convince family members that your older adult has a serious health condition and needs caregiving help, you need to remain calm and come up with a strategy.
Why would someone be in denial?
According to the Mayo Clinic, “Denial is a coping mechanism that gives you time to adjust to distressing situations.”
For some, denial is a subconscious way to ignore the fact that their parent or spouse is declining. For others, it’s a way to avoid taking on caregiving responsibilities.
How to start the conversation
1. Stay calm
Do your best to be kind and understanding when speaking with someone in denial.
Showing anger or being sarcastic will only make them dig their heels in deeper or feel justified in resisting your reasoning.
2. Share educational information
Share educational information that explains your older adult’s condition, typical symptoms, and the type of care they’ll most likely need.
3. Meet together with an expert
Some family members may not believe you but might listen to an impartial expert.
Offer to go together to talk with the doctor about your older adult’s health and care needs.
3. Do your research about assisted living
Assisted Living is a special combination of housing, personalized assistance, supportive services, and health care, designed to respond to the individual needs of those who need help with activities of daily living. These activities such as bathing, dressing, meals, medications, and exercise are available help to keep your loved one in optimal health only when needed.
If you have questions; schedule a meeting with us!
At Argo Senior Living at Haverhill Road, we understand how stressful this situation might be. Our friendly staff is available to explain all the options. Our community is designed to care for seniors but also to give them the pleasure of independent living.
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